Memories of dating
I could not help wondering: How many people buried me, too, in the graveyard of their hearts?
(Danny Castillones Sillada, Those Sweet and Painful Memories, Inusara Journal)” ― Danny Castillones Sillada “Every unpleasant worldly experience in life exposes our sensitive nervous systems to painful phenomena.
No one else can tell you what you are feeling, so only by being in touch with your own emotions can you know if you’re ready.
Everyone mourns differently, so widows/widowers must be careful not to let other people dictate the speed of their recovery.”“Too many variables to say what is right for anyone the old year thing is probably wise as a minimum. I didn’t quite make the 1 year wait to date thing…and I made a mess, I think I will use 5 years to remarry as a minimum.“This is variable, and having been married to a widower, been widowed and later marrying another widower as well as encountering several men on the widow/widower board, I have noticed that men seem to be ready earlier than women.
Life is a battering ram that inflicts trauma upon human beings. So much happened outside my window that I almost forgot what was happening inside that room.” ― Lisa See, “Parallel to tenderness and cruelty, the cataracts of pleasure and pain are interrelated.People blunt the traumatic force of enduring a lifetime of pain, fearfulness, and unremitted anguish and boredom with religion, sex, booze, drugs, fantasy, and other indulgent acts and forms acts of escapism.” ― Kilroy J. Painful and pleasurable sensations instruct us of our physical boundaries.Before I got married, I had a love/hate relationship with online dating.Memories of friends and dear ones should be always preserved like a fortune while the bad deeds and memories should be forgotten as soon as possible.“Memory is the diary that we all carry about with us “said Oscar wilde.
It is hard to live without memories whether you are young or old- but older people in comparison hold more memories.